Maude, these are hard to call.
I'm recovered but, was the neighborhood drunk.
Starters -- what my wife did -- set up some counseling sessions with you two.
My wife used a local church .
If that don't work for you then possibly contact your insurance provider.
Is their a relative or friend that your son and you can stay with time to time.
Although hard on you and your son
this sends a message that the boat is sinking.
Is his family close by?
Staying with them for a couple of days
will possibly help to bring light to the matter.
Should wake up (some) grow men to get a call from their mommy or daddy.
My mom and dad told me, "you had better not lose that saintly girl."
Just ideas -- we know these are hard times for you.
In our prayers,
M-Bob