Uh,............wow....
Yeah,...hes WAAAY too attached to you. His "Arent I enough?" comment,.....to that, I hope you said "No". Addiction requires treatment. How could someone who has no experience in treating an addict, no experience in alcoholism or drug addict counceling, possibly be "enough" when compared to a building that houses people like us, and experienced medical staff in dealing with addiction????
He has BIGTIME issues. You shouldnt consider him AT ALL in this decision. AA is a selfish program for a reason. You need to get sober and healthy for YOU. YOU AND YOU ONLY. Not until then, can you be of any good to others. Do what YOU feel is right.