O.K. I'm not shy any more. I can kiss girls (women, actually-I'm nearly 90). But I've acquired other underlying issues. I'm in love with my dog. I have a female friend but I'm in love with her cat. Would counseling help on these issues? Do I want to drink to resolve them? Answer is no to both questions. But some counselors seem to think that counseling always helps with any issue. I wonder why they say this!