Can you go to a meeting? Lots of people willing to talk and usually they will give you their own personal phone numbers (same gender) for you to call.
My first three meetings I think I was given over 75 phone numbers of AA members willing to talk.
Did you leave a message on the machine? Someone will call you back. I don't think the phones are always manned in off-business hours. It's all done by volunteers who have lives and jobs etc.
If you are in crisis, there are crisis hotlines. (Like 911, etc.)
You can talk to us.
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