Originally Posted by
SolidKarma 
I would divorce her immediately. If she can't support your pursuit in sobriety, then that to me is a huge issue. Sobriety has to be the number one priority, or everything else will melt away and lead back to the drink.
I wouldn`t allow myself to stay in such a relationship either. But it`s his life and over the years I`ve learned when it comes to marriage people are going to do what they are going to do.
Perhaps seeking marriage counseling on his own might be helpful.