Thanks everyone. Unfortunately, letters and affidavits are not admissible per my attorney. Anyway, AH wants to talk so wee are meeting with my attorney on Monday. I am going in with no expectations. He says that it only makes sense that son and I live in the house, but I'm suspecting that he wants something related to visitation in return. We shall see. I would be so happy to not go to court on Thursday, but will prepare as if I'm going to.