Sparklekitty:
Yes, that is correct. He is nowhere near thinking about recovery. I am just trying to not be a hypocrite I guess. No addiction here, and have gone years abstaining from alcohol in order to silently set an example and have a dry home on my part. That did zero good. So occasionally I will indulge now that I am not nursing, or taking care of babies all night long haha.
Thank you for your input!