My side of the street
Just seeking some clarification on the topic of consuming alcohol/marijuana use by the non-addict spouse. (Me in this scenario.)
I bought my first bottle of wine a few weeks ago at a girls night out.
I opened it for the first time this weekend, decided to have glass while reading. I didn't even finish it lol. Also, MJ is legal in my state, and I do partake in that responsibly. It helps me with anxiety(gee wonder why?) and sleep when needed and I never use while driving/caring for kids etc.
My question is, do I have "permission" to do this, all the while expecting AH to stop?
I probably have one adult beverage a month. MJ weekly.
Always responsibly. No addiction or dependence etc.
One time in an argument, with AH, this was thrown at me "well YOU do x,y, z so....."
Just wanting clarity on this. Guilty conscience. Working on my personal inventory...