Originally Posted by
awuh1 "You cannot change the past" is true in a literal sense, but don't let those words become a straight jacket. You can often change the consequences of past actions with your behavior in the present. Taking FULL responsibility for past involves doing what is possible to repair the damage done. This is the basic idea of making
amends and it's worked quite well for many of us
.
Amends aren't always possible.. The problem is I feel like I'm trying too hard to turn my life around, if that makes sense.