Hearthealth, Ariesagain is right....he will never see things your way....never....
Not if you stay for the next ten or twenty years...or, if you leave now....the end result will be the same....
Except, if you leave now...you will be free for you and your children to l ive a better life.....
It would be the best gift that you could provide for yourself and the children.....
There are lots of people who care about your welfare and will help you....