He is in the house. He has his two children from his previous marriage. He has custody of their son and she has custody of their daughter. I have custody of my son previous to him and since there is no threat to our son together we have joint custody. Although he was mentally abusive to me. He really paid no attention to the children and in the courts mental abuse is very hard to prove. There is no physical marks therefore nothing happened. I worked in mental health for years. But since we were married the courts will start with joint custody. But I do stop by all the time and call my son to check in on him.
He is sober has been for 6 months. And goes to AA now and that is under our temp agreement with the courts for him to continue regular visitations. I left the house because no matter what he would stop by daily and wouldn't give me the time I needed to heal while he worked through some of his issues at AA.