enf- I am a loser- at drinking. The simple statement- just do not drink has to sink in. It meant I had to do something different. It all starts with not drinking. You have to believe it, want it and persevere. The is no magic solution. Keep posting, sharing, trying, reading, learning, meetings. Do everything and if you have done everything- do it all again. Just keep trying.
Prayers and support to you and yours. PJ