Please to send a dozen wedding cookies to Bim.
I may have to go out and buy some today. My mother used to make ten different kinds of cookies and pack them up and mail them to us all (like five of us) all over the country. Then she would complain over and over about how much time and how stressful it was. Then I would say, "Mom, stop sending them!"
Honestly, I was over weight and didn't need them. The other family members had plenty of other people around at offices etc. - so lots of treats. She did it to her own self, then when we said how delicious they were, she'd kvetch about how much tiiiiiiiiiiiime it took.