AnvilheadII and dandylion, I always appreciate any feedback from you guys as it sounds as though you have much more experience than I do.
With regards to suggesting that my AH just drink in front of me, I could never bring myself to do that. It would seem like a backward step even though I know this situation is farcical and I know he does drink I do not wish to witness it first hand.
This situation can only continue for a short time (namely until xmas has passed) then I intend to tackle it with him.
Thanks everyone for support and advice
