Hello! It's been a while, I hope you are doing well!
Yikes, do I understand. I have an 11 and 17 year old. The 11 year old is mature both physically and mentally. She goes through the gamut of emotions on a regular basis.
The older dd did too, but not until about age 12. I can happily report, it does get better!!! I promise! For my older DD, it got better pretty quickly actually. Thank goodness!
Hugs!