Frick- well that is where you are wrong. I am always right and everything is about me. The world exists for a place where I an stand while I share (with the right amount of dramatic pain) my 'oh well children' wisdom with those poor people who do not know that since I am so sober after an eternal 10 months- they have to listen. I have been sober so long- I can chuckle with benevolent patience at the misguided antics of others by starting off saying 'back in the day' and my favourite- ' well, when I started in the rooms, my life was soooooo hard'.