It's called "venting" Ngaire. Have you ever done that? I think you're being a little insensitive.
If it frustrates you to read my posts, you always have the choice not to read them.
Please don't tell me what I should feel and what I shouldn't. It's different for each and everyone of us.
You may be at a point in your life to where you are strong enough not to listen to your A in your life anymore and Great for you.
I'm not there, yet.
You may mean well and thank you for that, but I take it being a little too harsh and not helpful.