Hello Lexiecat,
that is a valid point. I hope he does, I will not have contact for a long time, but I am hoping it will work. I think I had 100% expectations of him coming out and being clean and sober....My dad went to rehab when I was little and from what I know stayed clean and sober, so maybe I am just assuming off that...But I know they are different people. Okay, I should lower my expectations a bit and see where it goes..Hopefully great.
I just found out that it will take about 45- 60 days in, and then maybe a 90 day half way house type of deal...this is so long, I sit here crying not sure if I should A. cry because I am letting him go, or B. cry because I am lonely he is not here, BUT take a chance he will come home clean and sober. Ya know? I am praying for B.
Thank you for the input, I should take a step back and look at big picture.