(((sweetie)))
I'm still hearing all about him.
This last week for me, while believing he was at the farm, was SO good for ME. I got to do the things that I did before I met him
He's your ex! Why did it take for you to believe he was at the farm for you to begin to do things for yourself?
Hon, I'm not beating you up here - I just pick out the things that shout at me, probably because they hit home in my own life. We have to move on and sever that connection.
Well done on the exercise - it makes a real difference to how we feel about ourselves. I have been going out on my bike and whilst it takes me all my time to get motivated to do it, once I do it's brilliant.
Take it from one who has been there and still gets messages - delete them as soon as you know they're from him and end the call as soon as you know it's him. Until he gets recovery and has been working at it for a while, those calls will be all about him and are almost certain to be manipulative. The games will continue as long as you are willing to play.
So, what have you got planned for the weekend?