Girlfriend,
Sorry, how to say this kindly:
If you are ready to end your relationship with him:
Change your phone number and e-mail address A.S.A.P. when you hear his voice HANG-UP right away.
You are holding on, still hoping he'll change.
You are playing a game with yourself, we won't bother going into what game he is playing.
I have to remember when I am in codie behaviour it's ALL about ME, I want to control, change, manipulate,fix another person or situation so that I
feel better, or to get something for MYSELF.
Ngaire