I agree that taking a walk can change my mood.I've also realized that sometimes feeling badly is just part of feeling. Money issues are real and can cause such personal conflict and stress between couples. It's so hard not to feel in control and money issues can make me feel that way. I'm in a position that I am choosing to keep my job which is so stressful because I worry about money. I know it's a good job and I created the position but it's tempting to retire early and live more simply, would money stress make that simple life more problematic? Likely which is why I am still there.