Girlfriend feel your anger its empowering. then let it go. apparently they do not understand the meaning of enabeling, cuz that's what they are doin for him. By taking him in they are saying that it is ok to put off going in and getting help. I hope for your sake that he doesn't call you and continue the lies, its good to know that you are staying strong on your path. keep your head up and keep moving forward. my heart is with you.