^^Brenda- one of the things the BB cautions is against "all kinds of irrational thoughts and actions" - I have had a few "moments" or scenarios that I am grateful I didn't follow through on all the way. Makes sense that many caution against making huge life changes in early sobriety; every situation is different and what is considered "major" varies (IMO) and anything important does require our concerted attention and, perhaps, temporary "pause button" before acting.