Originally Posted by
neferkamichael 
Please check your joint bank account to see if there is an unusual amount of money missing and unaccountable. I wouldn't ignore it for two seconds. Start your own secret personal stash of cash, never give him any money, hide all your jewelry and valuable possessions and never ever let him use your car. Rootin for ya.
I have my own account, he has one, and we have a joint. I know he's not been paying his student loans of a few hundred to pay a golf membership that he missed two months now...
So I'm Definitely doing so for instance the taxes, he didn't do ours so I ended up doing them and here he's been getting much more in his pay bc he's not paying enough taxes...
Is this because he's terrible with money or using it poorly?!?
I am the type to believe in the best of everyone... I'm crushed but I know the answer I just can't grasp the why.