Originally Posted by
steve-in-kville 
I kinda remember that thread. I think the leadership at this chutrch became wise to my addiction because my wife may have told them some many months ago... back when I still drank. No fault to her, but I wasn't the one that confided in them
I got it from this post:
Originally Posted by
steve-in-kville One mistake I made was mentioning my struggles with addiction to a pastor at our church. Big mistake! I kinda clammed up about it and distanced myself a bit.
It reminded me of when I first started going to the church I mentioned. My life had just about come completely unraveled and I let it all hang out! I learned the hard way (as I usually do) that most people just don't understand that sort of thing. I came to see that a lot of incorrect assumptions were being made. I keep learning when to speak and when to shut up.