Originally Posted by
Smarie78 
Has anyone else experienced this with their A? I have to remember that they tend to be a selfish bunch. But instead of your A viewing you as cold and cruel for dialing down the affection while you heal, do they ever just accept what they have done and actually acknowledge that they need to work to get that love back? Actually, I think that's one of the 12 Steps and signal that my A is not ready to change.
Seems he has became so use to my doors being open with a smile he is a bit shell shocked this time.
It's been many moons here. Still no acknowledgement, just sanity created through distance and no contact. I wouldn't have it any other way.