Originally Posted by
tomsteve 
ask me to not do something wben i was drinking and i wanted to do it more.
ask me to do something when i was drinking and i wanted to do it less.
Yep, XAH told me many times during the last year or two we were married that he "was going to get sober, just not on YOUR schedule!" Well, I bought that for a while, gave things time, b/c truly, I didn't want the upheaval and fear that divorce represented to me.
Eventually, though, we divorced on MY schedule b/c HIS "recovery" schedule pretty much meant
never.