As far as what he's doing for recovery, well he went to two meetings as required by work and once after that. I searched his history on his phone and he had googled something about what happens at meetings and similar searches so now I don't even believe he went, just says whatever I want to hear...however he did have to have papers filled out for work to prove he went so he had to go at least once. But otherwise, he hasn't done anything. He just thinks he can do this himself. That apparently he's strong enough. And I have not done anything for myself either. It's very difficult for me to get away to attend meetings. This I turn to this forum when I'm at breaking points.