Originally Posted by
kittycat3 
You say he's actually nice - but he uses your cc without permission, refuses to take you on a cheap date, and won't leave you alone when he's drunk? Doesn't sound nice to me....keep listening to your instincts
That's exactly why I keep coming to SR, because I still don't connect everything like that. I'll tell anyone who asks, yep he's a nice guy, but I won't tell them the rest.
Crazy thing is I've been pushing the bad stuff to the back of my mind for so long, because if I didn't, I'd be kicking myself every day for staying, for marrying him, for doing all the extra crap trying to fix it.