Oh Venus - I am so clueless sometimes. I completely missed this thread and until 15 minutes ago, had no idea what you have been going through.
And I feel very bad about that. I'm so so sorry. You've been there for me so many times and gosh....
I am so relieved you don't have cancer. And reading the outpouring of love on your thread to me, says you have lots of family.
Much love to you sista ~ you are in my thoughts.