Thank you Dame! That is sweet of you. Yes make a plan and when all else fails just leave if you can't handle it. I was prepared to not even say goodbye. It really helped that I had someone on the outside waiting for me to tell her how my night went. I couldn't go back to her telling her I had drank. Nor did I want to! The crazy thing is in my dream last night I had drank at the party and I was so disappointed!! I woke up this morning and for a split second I thought did I?? And thank god it was just a dream