I do miss it though. No denying that. I miss it so much. The comfort and reward after a day in the trenches of life.
what happens if you reframe that? you miss comfort and reward. you don't know what to do to get comfort. or fill your "need" for reward.
looking beyond what seemed a "miss/need drink!!!" to what was really missing and needed was hugely helpful to me.
the drink was irrelevant; the widening of the lens to see what i really needed allows for investigating ways to get the real need met.
if there is one.