Dear Again, its always hard to "hope" again once a few months of good sobriety comes along. I talk to God quite often to ask him to take these thoughts of anxiety from me. I know its my codependency that is always worrying, always obsessing and cannot just BE.
I hope you are able to keep your house. I hope and pray you get some basic peace in knowing you have done exactly what you can control. You worked it out to get them into recovery. Now they can do the work.
I encourage you to keep the conversations going either via phone or letter or email (if they can get emails).
Hugs and prayers for you today.
TT