Originally Posted by
NYCDoglvr 
He was sober two years and knew better than to bring our relationship into the room, which is what would have happened.
Oh I see. So you were actively drinking/alcoholic and dating someone who was sober and involved in AA. And did you break up when you started going to AA or did you just not go to meetings together?
Sorry, you dont have to explain the details. I was just curious. It would probably be hard for someone who was 2 years in recovery to date someone still drinking and maybe also going through early recovery not knowing how it would turn out for you, risky for his sobriety I would think.