I do know, as I told him, that this wouldn't even be happening if he hadn't made the choices he did. I told him every time he stays at my house the same thing happens and I won't have it anymore.
When he complained about the sober living I suggested he should have stayed in the hospital then.
It's hard for me to detach, yes. Maybe I am addicted to his addiction and lifestyle. He is my son and it hurts to tell him to go.
But I also know deep down he has to figure out what he's going to do with his life.
He's mad and told me he wasn't going to talk to me for a while. I sent a few texts to him and now will leave him to his space and enjoy mine.