He is bipolar and takes meds for depression also, so that also makes it hard to kick him out if he were to run out of his medicine.
Do you hand him his bipolar pills every day? Make him swallow them?
It makes no sense to NOT make him pay rent in order to pay you back for the money he loaned you for a car. What does that do besides still leave you short on money?
I have to say if that is what you people did with your loved one, you are much more heartless or stronger than me.
I think heartless is for a grown man in his 40’s to be so reliant on his mommy and his mommy so needing him to be. If heaven forbid something were to happen to you – who would then step in to your role and take care of him like you do? How would he survive?