I would like for him to repay some of the money I spent on helping him buy a car first before I make him leave. He can find his own way to work and back from now on. If I kick him out now, I will never see a penny of the money I helped buy the car with. Getting to an from work now is his own problem. I not helping with that any more.
And when this 43 year old MAN decides he can’t get himself to work, no money to repay you, then what?
Does he pay rent, help with YOUR utilities, food ?