i agree with anvillhead.
this
"So all day he has just been happy as a lark like nothing has happened at all. Watching football, washing clothes, laughing and talking and could not care less that he has given his car and phone away."
would be me basically sayin," phew, she bailed me out again so all is good.shes still my enabler."
what now? are you sick and tired of the circus and ready to do whatever you have to do to step off the merry-go-round?