Originally Posted by
Optimist4ever57 
I don't think you're overreacting at all, Sunflower. I would be livid if my children were in a car with a driver that had been drinking. Is there any way you can get into couples counseling? I found that to be very helpful (even though we got divorced). My ex had so many issues that would eventually come to light in a session, whether it was by him blowing up or arguing with me (which he did frequently). Keeping you in my thoughts. Stay strong!
Thank you Optimist. We just started the other week but she wants to see us individually next and we both have appointments next week for that. I am going to call today to make sure we can get in to see her together the following week. I NEED his issues to be brought to light because as far as I can tell he doesn't think he has any.