Originally Posted by
sunshine72 
Flying out tomororrow from NC. caught myself fantasizing about partien as soon as we get picked up at the airport with my best friend. I can't I just can't. I hope I'm not dull and boring. We are wild and crazy girls and have been friends for 23 years. We have already partied like rock stars a ton in our 2 decades. So I just don't know what to do or say. I feel like time will go by so slow... I can't wait to go and I can't wait to feel comfortable not drinking around her.
Hi sunshine, if you have been friends for so long, maybe just be honest with her? Then relax and have a great time. I think you will be surprised how much fun you are without alcohol!! As a former big "partier" when I had my 11 months of sobriety I was able to go out and have a lot of fun without alcohol, actually, more fun! The notion that you can only have fun with alcohol is all your AV manipulating you!
With all that said, have a great time and good luck!! Try and pop on here if you can
