Best advice I can give is to give the relationship time and space to evolve. Have plenty of other interests and keep your life full with your other commitments. Not putting a label on it is ok in the beginning - if he is still saying that in a years time then maybe there is an issue, but early stages should be taken slowly. Think hard about whether he is the guy for you, it should not be all about whether you are the right match for him. Make sense? Don't cancel plans for him or keep your calendar open "just in case"....you should feel he is proactive in contacting you and setting up plans, etc. make sure it's a two way street and you aren't putting in all the effort...