How to cope when the day draws near
I need some advice. How have some of you coped with the final day drawing near. I have let the xABF know that 9/1/16 he will be locked out of the house.
As some of you can imagine, he still meanders around here as if nothing is happening. He 'acknowledges' the words I say as far as him moving out. But his actions are not showing he is serious. Not looking for a place to stay, eating my food, sitting his ass in front of the TV playing video games, etc.
I can feel my blood pressure rise and have to go to a different part of the house. What are some techniques I can do to practice some patience and tolerance in this last stretch. As many of you can imagine, I have reached the limit of tolerance. I have put up with this for TEN LONG, MISERABLE years and I just want the heck out.
Please share some things I can do in the next 14 days to get to a place where I can tolerate his presence.