Maybe it is just me but I seem to have seen a lot of, "I can, don't want to, I won't, it not for me, I heard, it is not a fit, makes me uncomfortable......." posts lately.
I am serious. I can't think of one thing in my first year of sobriety I wanted to do or that didn't make me feel uncomfortable. It took a while but I eventually realized there is no sobriety fairy. In order to be the person I wanted to be I had to stop being the person I was.
Quitting drink was the foundation but then the heavy lifting started. I had to change and change is never fun or easy but the payoffs are huge