Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
Does it make any degree of sense whatsoever that you should come back BEFORE he's doing all this wonderful stuff he's promising to do?
It's just a hook to reel you back in.
Look, breakups are hard. If you run back every time it starts to hurt, it never really ends and you never get a chance to heal. I suggest you BLOCK the texts, go through the pain involved in ANY breakup, and then you can start to get on with your life.
No Lexie, it doesn't make any sense. Thank you. Every time I've gone back there's the usual promises followed by no change from him or me for that matter. On numerous occasions I've put it to him that do it first and then I will but he's never agreed so silly old me returned. This time won't be any different as he'd have no reason to change and I've told him I won't xx