Originally Posted by
Ariesagain 
Oh, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not go back there. Once it works to suck you back in, he'll relapse and it will magically become your fault. Please. For your dog's sake, if nothing else.
Block him. And while you're at it, tell your addict friend that you're going through too much right now to be helpful to her, and then block her, too.
Sometimes you have to come first and now is that time.
Thanks Aries,
I know you are right. Been there a hundred times no exaggeration. I do need to put me first and I've told him that before. I don't want to go back and every time I have in the last 12 months I've regretted it straight away.
With my friend she knows what's going on and is also someone else who thinks I'm best off without him. She won't understand if I break contact but I'm going to have to. I can't be at her beck and call 24/7 and also it would be so wrong to support one alcoholic and not another xx