Congratulations on 85 days, you are nearing the 90 day mark which is a huge milestone!!
I think we all have certain activities/events that we usually did while drinking and now that we are doing them sober we are adjusting. I am just over seven months now and there are certain events throughout the year which use to involve me drinking. I figure once I hit the one year mark I will have gone through each possible event/season sober.
Hang in there, it gets easier as time passes.