Originally Posted by
bakerylady 
Since this (two months ago), he has slowly begun bringing beer home more and more often, which makes me both skeptical of his genuine belief that I am an alcoholic.
You realize that you are alcoholic -- good first step to recovery.
Truly, sounds like you both need to go to counseling together.
The wife and I called a local church and they offered free counseling.
We took them up on that and it worked well for us.
But, (both parties) must be willing.
M-Bob
Recommend that you both read the AA Big Book.
I'm a recovered drunk and the wife is a normie -- we both learned much from the Big Book.