Originally Posted by
Nowsthetime 
My sobriety is totally up to me and I'm so glad I made this decision. Honestly best decision of my life.
He doesn't have a drinking problem. He might over drink sometimes but can honestly take it or leave it. I really liked what some of you said about me not expecting him to understand since he is a normie... I am angry at him for asking me to drink with hi because that's not real support. His denial is very frustrating. I'm getting my phone out and recording him in secret next time so I can replay it to him.
Is that wrong?
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In my opinion, yes, it's wrong. You are tying your sobriety and recovery to him and it's not like that. It's your recovery and it's up to you. If he asks you to have a drink with him, say 'No thanks' and head off to read a book or go for a walk. He doesn't understand addiction - most people don't, which is why we come here. Being angry towards him is simply hurting you.