Originally Posted by
Berrybean 
Thing is, rage, anger and resentment are bigger enemies to us than the normies who offers us a drink. So, you have discovered that he is unhelpful. You have choices now about how to react.
Exactly.
Your husband lost his drinking buddy, and he isn't handling it well. You can change it if you can, accept it if you can't, just be wise enough to know the difference.
Congrats on your continued sobriety in the face of adversity.
