Argh Hechose! It sounds like you have had a day and then some.
Parents can get so under your skin. As you know each other so well, a simple sentence or word can be loaded with all sorts of accusation/guilt/fillinsomeyuckemotion!!!
After days like this, I like to think that in the natural course of ups and downs there should be an up on its way. (this may not be true but it helps to think like this).
Big hug to you and I hope some big sloppy, fuzzy happy event is headed straight your way!!